The mystery that we on earth have failed to comprehend is that God is wholly good.
God only acts in a way that is beneficial to us.
There is no harm is God.
He forgives even the most heinous sinner.
And acts in a way which is beneficial to everyone.
God seeks to maximize the benefit in any situation for the maximum number of people.
God can bring good out of unfortunate events.
So do not fear God.
There is nothing to fear.
God only wants what is best for us.
And when we pray, "'Our Father in heaven.'" Matthew 6:9b (NRSV)
Know that it is heaven because God is there.
(Scripture quotations (marked NRSV) are taken from the New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the U.S.A., and are used by permission. All rights reserved.)